Hello darlings! Hoping this little blog post finds you feeling absolutely joyous and gentle at the same time. So much has been going on in the world, my world and, therefore no doubt, your world. I hope things feel positive even when they feel dark, that your focus is on fabulous 'you' in times of... Continue Reading →
You meet someone amazing, you go on a few dates, you fall head over heels in love. You're so happy that you just can't stop talking about it. It's a story that I'm sure many of you will recognise, but how do we stop it before we get too bad? When a friend meets some... Continue Reading →
Last February, I wrote about how much I missed the anonymous messages that used to be such a large part of Valentine's Day. From the notes that we sent each other in school, to the short newspaper ads that were mini declarations of love, they brought joy to many people on a day that doesn't... Continue Reading →
Yesterday, Olympic medal-winning diver Tom Daley told the world (via YouTube) that he is happily dating a man. I first read about this on the BBC news website and straight away pounced on the fact that, although Daley said he still fancied women, the article contained no mention of the word bisexual. I erroneously attributed... Continue Reading →
Hello Darlings... Lovely to be back here with you! Full disclosure folks, I, your sex columnist, have not 'had sex' in quite a while; sex being any intimate contact with another individual. I've shared some wonderful kisses and soared high on the joy and thrill of another being's loveliness and sexiness but nothing more than... Continue Reading →
The internet is full of advice on how to have better relationships. How can I please him? What does she really want? How do we make it work? The strange thing is... it's mostly based around romantic relationships. However, some of the things we should be more aware of to make them work, also help... Continue Reading →
I miss the anonymous Valentine's messages that we used to send and receive. Little cryptic snippets of love or lust. Tiny windows into someone else's world. To bring back a little of this secret romance - far away from expensive gifts and some large faceless corporation's idea of what love should be - I asked... Continue Reading →
This one's for all you lingerie fans out there. In case you weren't already aware of it, the Love Bomb is an annual celebration of the work of some of the best independent lingerie and swimwear designers, which takes place in the run up to Valentine's Day. Each of the brands taking part is run... Continue Reading →
Do you remember what it feels like embark on a new romantic and/or sexual relationship? That wonderfully blissful high where your new partner can do no wrong, you just can't wait to see them again, and you really don't think you could be any happier? Your heart overflows with joy and it's almost impossible to... Continue Reading →
There are many things we are brought up to believe in by society and our well-meaning parents. When we are young, a life path spreads out before us - school, university, career, marriage, children - and there are constant pointers towards how to achieve what is expected of us. As we enter our teenage years,... Continue Reading →