I often see articles on how to have successful relationships, but these are almost always focused on romantic and/or sexual relationships, which is odd because we have so many other relationships in our lives. We have relationships with family, friends and colleagues, but there is nowhere near as much general advice out there on how... Continue Reading →
How to talk to your partner
If I asked you "do you tell your partner everything?", what would your answer be? If your reply would be "no, not everything" and you sometimes wonder why your significant other isn't a mind reader, perhaps you should stop and think about that for a while. How can they truly know you if you keep... Continue Reading →
Should consent be assumed in fantasies?
I have a bit of a problem. It sometimes affects my enjoyment of light-hearted pleasurable things and can cause people to use their 'confused face' on me when I tell them. It started a few years ago, but now I can't switch it off. My problem is... I just can't enjoy fantasies unless consent is... Continue Reading →
The Alternative A-to-Z of Sex: Honesty
Honesty may be the best policy when it comes to relationships, at least as far as I'm concerned, but it's also a pretty important component of sex. Right from the moment we find ourselves sexually attracted to someone, dishonesty can cause all sorts of problems if it's left to seep in. We need to be... Continue Reading →
Ohhh a big blank empty space, just for me to scribble in.Write me a guest post, she said.It can be about anything you want, she said.ANYTHING I WANT?Wow.That's very liberating. Very liberating indeed.Especially if I was to ask to remain anonymous... (which I didn't, as you've probably already figured out).If I were anonymous I could... Continue Reading →