As with many things, when it comes to sex, having some enthusiasm for the task at hand is usually considered to be of benefit. An eager lover is far more desirable than one who simply lies back and thinks of what they need to do tomorrow. A partner who is keen to lay their hands... Continue Reading →
Yes. The word you say before anything else happens. We say yes to a date, yes to a drink, yes to going back to their place. However you consent to sex, there is always a yes there. Whether or not your mouth forms the word itself, there is a yes in your eagerness to proceed.... Continue Reading →
Xenophilia is described as an affection for unknown objects or people. It could apply to a desire for sex with strangers and so could be used to describe those who enjoy swinging or cruising. It can also apply to an attraction to things/people that are foreign. An English woman who lusts after Greek men is... Continue Reading →
Why do you want sex? What are the reasons behind it? Do you genuinely desire and want to fuck the person you're with right now, or do you merely think that doing so will keep them happy? Are you having sex because you want to feel loved, because you need an orgasm, because you're keen... Continue Reading →
When you look at sensual photos of attractive people, does it turn you on? It's a well reported fact that men are more easily stimulated by visual cues than women. However, this doesn't mean that women don't find the sight of their partner in a state of undress - or some really good porn -... Continue Reading →
It couldn't have been anything else for U in my A-to-Z, could it? U is most definitely for Underwear. Gorgeous lingerie can make you feel utterly amazing. Sexy man pants can really boost your confidence. No matter what your gender, there's no denying that skimpies matter. However, don't go thinking that underwear has to look... Continue Reading →
I would hope that you already know to carry condoms. Unless you and your partner(s) have been recently tested and have a clean bill of sexual health, by far the safest way to have sex is to rubber up before getting down to business. If you haven't been tested, have you considered it? Visiting a... Continue Reading →
Scent plays a big part in attraction for some people. We all know this. For some, it's that fresh-from-the-shower smell that turns them on. For others it's their partner's choice of bottled fragrance mixed with their own natural scent. Your lover may even be attracted by a smell that you assumed they wouldn't like -... Continue Reading →
As a teenager, sex involves a lot of rubbing. Due partly to the sheer joy that someone was actually allowing you to kiss and fondle them, and partly to the fact that you were a bit unsure about what to do next, much teenage rubbing is done through clothes. As we get older, we forget... Continue Reading →
Everyone has their own quirks. Their own particular ways of doing something. From casual to obsessive, spontaneous to organised, our habits quite often define us. Once we've found a specific way of doing something that we like, it's fun to explore it further and find other people who agree with our way of thinking. This... Continue Reading →