Why do you want sex? What are the reasons behind it? Do you genuinely desire and want to fuck the person you’re with right now, or do you merely think that doing so will keep them happy? Are you having sex because you want to feel loved, because you need an orgasm, because you’re keen to try something new, or simply because you can? In a way, it doesn’t really matter what the reason is but it’s always useful to have some idea why you’re doing something, as it will then make it easier to get your needs met. Whatever your reason for intimately exploring another person, just make sure it is of benefit to you and not solely a choice made in order to please someone else. It takes (at least) two, so don’t for a second think that your own desires are unimportant. You really are worth it.