Everyone has their own quirks. Their own particular ways of doing something. From casual to obsessive, spontaneous to organised, our habits quite often define us. Once we’ve found a specific way of doing something that we like, it’s fun to explore it further and find other people who agree with our way of thinking. This applies to anything… even sex. Quirky, or kinky, sex is sometimes dismissed as dirty and immoral, yet it often fulfills the same basic human needs as kissing or hugging. Many people have already tried a spot of light bondage or spanking in the bedroom without considering themselves to be at all kinky, simply because it can be a lot of fun. If you haven’t tried it out yet, but think you might quite like to, the first step is to talk to your partner. Then perhaps try a workshop or a DVD to introduce you to the basics. Take it slowly, talk things through, and choose your equipment and sources of information wisely. Sometimes a little bit of something quirky can be just what you need.
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