Over a year ago, I applied to be a writer for BitchBuzz. I sent off links to samples of some of my work, explained why I wanted to write for the site and why I thought I would be good at it. The editor, Cate, had also asked what section I would like to write for and so I had a careful look to see what was already there in order to work out how I could best fit in. Discovering that the sex section was looking rather bare and unloved, I decided to make that my primary focus in the hope that Cate would be more likely to say yes. After all, it’s not like I knew nothing about the subject matter, right?
A few months in to my new schedule as a contributor and I started worrying that I would soon run out of ideas on what to write about, so I began following more links on Twitter and reading more sex-related blogs to expand my horizons. It was then that I discovered Dr Petra Boynton‘s blog and realised that I could use this opportunity to educate myself as well as my readers, exploring new topics regarding sexual health as well as technique and relationships. Sex and sexuality is a fascinating area and what I write about need not be titillating or too ‘preachy’ if I approach it in the right way. OK, so my articles are quite short and aren’t really going to set the world alight, but BitchBuzz is a great site and I’m sure that through it I am reaching a far wider range of people than I do with this blog.
Despite the fact that I’m finding it easier to decide what to write about these days, one thing I have found rather useful is the topics that my friends suggest to me for my articles. So, if you have a subject that’s related to sex and/or relationships that you would be interested in reading a short article about, please let me know. I’d love to find out what interests you all.
I've been thinking about kink and mainstream acceptance a bit recently, particularly with Rihanna's latest video (will hold back my opinion for now…) – would be interested to read about your take on it…
I second that interesting suggestion, and will also keep my opinions to myself! It also made me think about the subject of 'coming out' as kinky, which was something I thought a lot about, once. (Another blog post was inspired, but sadly not one I can publish!)
Just a quick little comment to say it's been an absolute delight getting to 'know' you through your BitchBuzz columns and through this blog – I think I started following you because of a link from BitchBuzz's Twitter feed (that and the inevitable bitching about Southeastern), and ever since you've brightened my day on many an occasion with your writing – always thoughtful, perceptive and thought-provoking. Keep it up!
Thanks for the suggestions (and for your *lovely* comments, Jane!). It's all much appreciated 🙂